Tuesday, December 16, 2014

To my women - know your worth

 
 
Women. Know your worth.
Know that you are worthy.
You are more than enough.
Know yourself.
And love yourself.
You deserve respect, love, faithfulness.
You deserve it all.
God loves you.
You are His daughter.
He has your back.
Don't let a man make you feel unworthy.
Don't let a man break you down.
Your worth, your identity, is not dependent on any man.
A man does not define you.
There is nothing wrong with being alone.
There is nothing wrong with y o u.
Know your worth.
Know what you want, and more importantly, what you deserve.
You need a man who wants you.
Not a man who needs you, or relies on you.
A man who has genuine love and adoration for all that you are.
A man who simply w a n t s you.
All of you, forever.
He will do whatever it takes, every day.
He will be there.
His love will be proven to you.
You will feel important.
His effort will be clear.
 
But when a man let's you down, know that it is not you.
That falls on him, period.
Do not take it out on yourself.
Many men like the idea of you.
But they are not mature enough to handle the reality of you.
Don't you dare feel bad about yourself when someone doesn't want you.
Or when someone chooses to hurt you.
It's not you, it's them.
It is their character, their heart.
Not yours.
Don't you forget your worth.
Don't settle for less than you know you deserve.
Be confident in being alone.
Until a man walks into your life and proves himself.
You have a lot of love to give.
You deserve to be picky.
If a man cannot step up to the plate
then be okay with that.
Walk away.
Trust God's plan.
Wait for the right man who will love you selflessly.
A man whose focus is y o u, and not himself.
Know your worth.
You deserve the best.
You are an amazing woman.
No man should ever define your worth.
You will always be beautiful.
Hold tightly to the One who holds your future.